{"id":46414,"date":"2023-03-16T16:16:59","date_gmt":"2023-03-16T16:16:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/egrowonline.com\/?p=46414"},"modified":"2023-03-16T16:16:59","modified_gmt":"2023-03-16T16:16:59","slug":"crypto-winter-can-take-a-toll-on-hodlers-mental-health-cointelegraph-magazine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/egrowonline.com\/?p=46414","title":{"rendered":"Crypto winter can take a toll on hodlers\u2019 mental health \u2013 Cointelegraph Magazine"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p>With so many struggling to maintain emotional well-being during this crypto winter, self-improvement and mental health experts can help navigate the ups, downs and soul-shattering experiences that a long-term bear market can bring.<\/p>\n<p>Mental health professional Elizabeth Sterbenz and wellness thought leader Srikumar Rao discuss with Magazine how to cope with the depreciation of crypto portfolios, move forward and illuminate intuitive happiness. Sterbenz is a licensed psychotherapist in California specializing in individual, couples and financial therapy. Rao is an international speaker and executive business coach with a PhD from Columbia University. He teaches a course at the Kellogg School of Management at Northwestern University that merges Eastern philosophies with modern business practices.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Learn how to ride a tsunami<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Rao believes that crypto traders, developers and community members have been hit by a tsunami. They are struggling through a long-term crypto winter that shows no immediate signs of warming. They also celebrated a two-year NFT boom that was quickly followed by a devastating bust.<\/p>\n<p>The community was recently gobsmacked when major figures in the cryptocurrency industry, like Sam Bankman-Fried and Do Kwon, were accused of fraudulent activities, discrediting the industry and harming investors.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>And the hits keep coming. Just weeks ago, the United States Department of Justice and other international authorities took down a Hong Kong-based crypto exchange and arrested its founder in Miami.\u00a0<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-rich is-provider-twitter wp-block-embed-twitter\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"550\" data-dnt=\"true\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Anatoly Legkodymov, the co-founder and majority shareholder of Bitzlato, a Hong Kong-registered cryptocurrency exchange, has been arrested and charged with allegedly operating Bitzlato as an unlicensed money transmitting business.<a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/LBVKyPRkkz\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">https:\/\/t.co\/LBVKyPRkkz<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u2014 FBI (@FBI) <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/FBI\/status\/1615809059369914369?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">January 18, 2023<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<\/figure>\n<p>Rao believes that the bear market can be used as an opportunity to learn how to surf the top of the tsunami while calmly observing what\u2019s happening below. He says one can achieve this by accepting that winning is not a requirement for happiness. Happiness doesn\u2019t come from making the right trade or a lot of money. According to Rao, that\u2019s a false belief:<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p>\u201cThe thought that you have to have something happen in order to be happy, it\u2019s just false. But you believe in it so strongly because you never really thought about it independently. You\u2019ve just been carried on by the mass hysteria.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Sterbenz takes it a step further, suggesting it\u2019s unnecessary to go it alone, especially in these tough times. \u201cI think you have to be able to kind of trust, you know, having a good financial adviser. That\u2019s an important part of your team.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She believes getting sound, objective financial advice will provide peace of mind. Relying on someone else to help assess trades and to help make decisions about overall financial situations provides a feeling of being covered. \u201cYou can then set your financial worries aside and focus on your well-being,\u201d Sterbenz says.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Rao claims it\u2019s also important to recognize that cryptocurrency has no intrinsic value. The value is only what people believe it is. Large numbers of people agree that a particular token has a particular value at a particular time, but the moment people don\u2019t feel that way anymore, the coin ceases to have the same value.<\/p>\n<p>Rao says, \u201cIf you accept that up front, before you make the investment, and you say that what could have happened did happen, and it happened when I made the wrong trade, that\u2019s okay. I\u2019ll recover. I\u2019ll move on, and I never really needed this to work out to be happy in the first place.\u201d<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"600\" height=\"278\" alt=\"A crowd forms outside of the Oregon Trust &amp; Savings after executives announced it was shuttering because they would be unable to pay obligations.\" class=\"wp-image-16742\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cointelegraph.com\/magazine\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/A-crowd-forms-outside-of-the-Oregon-Trust-Savings.jpeg 600w, https:\/\/cointelegraph.com\/magazine\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/A-crowd-forms-outside-of-the-Oregon-Trust-Savings-300x139.jpeg 300w\" data-lazy-sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" src=\"https:\/\/cointelegraph.com\/magazine\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/A-crowd-forms-outside-of-the-Oregon-Trust-Savings.jpeg\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"600\" height=\"278\" src=\"https:\/\/cointelegraph.com\/magazine\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/A-crowd-forms-outside-of-the-Oregon-Trust-Savings.jpeg\" alt=\"A crowd forms outside of the Oregon Trust &amp; Savings after executives announced it was shuttering because they would be unable to pay obligations.\" class=\"wp-image-16742\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cointelegraph.com\/magazine\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/A-crowd-forms-outside-of-the-Oregon-Trust-Savings.jpeg 600w, https:\/\/cointelegraph.com\/magazine\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/A-crowd-forms-outside-of-the-Oregon-Trust-Savings-300x139.jpeg 300w\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">A crowd formed outside of the Oregon Trust &amp; Savings after executives announced it was shuttering because it would be unable to pay obligations. Aug. 22, 1907. Source: Wikimedia Commons<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h2><strong>How to deal with the crypto corruption shakeout<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Many of the crypto community\u2019s worst fears were realized when FTX imploded and its founder was arrested, as well as when Terra crashed and subsequent <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/cointelegraph.com\/news\/sec-sues-do-kwon-and-terraform-labs-for-fraud\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">charges were filed against its former CEO<\/a>. Uncertainty about the inevitability of stricter federal regulatory efforts further validated those concerns.<\/p>\n<p>Crime is now, undeniably, a part of the crypto ecosystem, just as it is part of the traditional investment arena. That\u2019s a tough pill to swallow, and even meaningful regulatory crackdowns are cause for concern.<\/p>\n<p>Nonetheless, Sterbenz suggests that this is nothing to be ashamed of and doesn\u2019t mean participating in crypto is disreputable or embarrassing. Comparing the situation to those critical of traditional investors after history\u2019s largest Ponzi scheme was exposed, Sterbenz says, \u201cThat\u2019s also like saying, like Bernie Madoff, \u2018I told you all these stocks were a scam. You should be putting your money in the mattress.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<p>According to Sterbenz, it\u2019s important to separate from the bad behavior of unscrupulous characters and simply accept that there will always be bad actors.<\/p>\n<p>Rao believes blaming lousy luck or crypto losses on those bad actors certainly won\u2019t lead to happiness or peace of mind. He says that when the universe, or its participants, doesn\u2019t play by the rules and things go the opposite way, it\u2019s easy to assume the sky is falling. Distress and unhappiness can quickly follow.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnd you blame it all on an outside force. I am unhappy because so and so did such, and he\u2019s a downright scallywag. And because he\u2019s a scallywag, he\u2019s now being investigated. But, in the meantime, the markets are gone to hell!\u201d Rao says. Instead, he suggests anchoring yourself in the idea that you\u2019re only involved in crypto because that\u2019s where your path is taking you. \u201cMe playing this game is something I do because it\u2019s my path in life, and I\u2019ll enjoy playing the game. I don\u2019t necessarily have to win for it to bring me satisfaction or joy,\u201d Rao says.<\/p>\n<div class=\"article-suggest\">\n<p>Read also<\/p>\n<div class=\"article-suggest__items\">\n<div class=\"article-suggest__item\">\n                        <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/cointelegraph.com\/magazine\/inside-story-australias-proposed-world-leading-crypto-laws-crossroads\/\" class=\"article-suggest__subtitle display4\" rel=\"noopener\"><br \/>\n                            <span>Features<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Australia\u2019s world-leading crypto laws are at the crossroads: The inside story<\/p>\n<p>                        <\/a>\n                    <\/div>\n<div class=\"article-suggest__item\">\n                        <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/cointelegraph.com\/magazine\/dont-be-angry-about-nfts\/\" class=\"article-suggest__subtitle display4\" rel=\"noopener\"><br \/>\n                            <span>Features<\/span><\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t need to be angry about NFTs<\/p>\n<p>                        <\/a>\n                    <\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<h2><strong>That\u2019s great, but I\u2019m rekt!<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>According to Rao, traders who have lost it all must accept that they believed something, perhaps all of their lives, that turned out to be disastrously untrue. Happiness cannot be found in a successful trade any more than it can be lost by a bad one.<\/p>\n<p>Rao says, \u201cThe thing to do is not beat myself up and shoot second arrows at myself. Simply recognize that this was wrong. It was a sharp cut with a knife, but now that I have received it, I can see how clearly I was wrong. Let me pick up the pieces and not make that same mistake again. Tomorrow is another day, and I don\u2019t have to let today\u2019s residue poison tomorrow.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Although it\u2019s not easy, Rao suggests looking at awareness like it\u2019s a flashlight. A flashlight illuminates whatever it shines its light on. \u201cIf you illuminate it on the big gains you once had and neglected to sell, and now it\u2019s all gone, and you\u2019re behind where you started, you\u2019re shining the flashlight of your awareness on something that you defined as wrong in your life,\u201d Rao says. That\u2019s an inefficient strategy. Instead, he suggests shining the flashlight on what to do next. \u201cYou\u2019re not starving, you\u2019re not being foreclosed and thrown out of the house \u2014 or even if you are, nobody\u2019s holding your hands in a vice while they rip your fingernails off,\u201d Rao says.<\/p>\n<p>For those really struggling with severe anxiety or depression, Sterbenz recommends therapy and believes that professional help can be a gateway to personal growth. If one is not experiencing a severe clinical need and therapy isn\u2019t necessary, she suggests focusing on the concept of radical acceptance.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>According to the Berkeley Well-Being Institute, <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.berkeleywellbeing.com\/radical-acceptance.html\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">radical acceptance<\/a> is \u201caccepting what is not under your control and embracing what is happening now in a non-judgmental way.\u201d Radically accepting emotional or physical pain can reduce the suffering they cause. \u201cIf you were involved in any of the cryptocurrencies that have been affected by this, you can move forward from there. Other people have also been affected by this. You made the best decision you could at the time,\u201d Sterbenz says.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Reach out for help\u00a0<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>If crypto traders or holders are experiencing thoughts of self-harm, Sterbenz says, \u201cGet help immediately.\u201d She suggests going directly to a medical professional or calling a trusted friend.<\/p>\n<p>The crypto community has previously shared resources such as international aggregators of suicide hotlines during bear markets when a number of hodlers who were underwater expressed harmful thoughts.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-rich is-provider-twitter wp-block-embed-twitter\" \/>\n<p>Regarding such thoughts, Sterbenz says, \u201cThey do pass. It does not feel like that when you\u2019re in that moment. It does not feel like those two to five minutes are going to end.\u201d Therefore, she believes it\u2019s most important to have people around you who will do the best for you.<\/p>\n<p>Sterbenz also believes that family and friends shouldn\u2019t hesitate to reach out to loved ones who might be considering self-harm.\u00a0She says that many people think talking about suicide makes it more likely something will happen. \u201cAnd that is really not true,\u201d Sterbenz says. She recommends directly asking those struggling if they are thinking of hurting themselves. \u201cThat\u2019s not gonna make them more likely to do something.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Lady of Crypto, a trader and Twitter influencer, also advocates for mental health. She tells Magazine, \u201cIt was an incredibly tough time in the crypto space, and so many people were affected. I\u2019ve had friends who have struggled, and I\u2019ve seen how people can become shadows of themselves and be pushed to the edge. To see these messages on Twitter really is heartbreaking. No one should ever be in a position where suicide is their only option. I just thought if I kept my inbox open and could make a difference to even one person, it would be worthwhile.\u201d<\/p>\n<div class=\"subscribe subscribe--inner\">\n<div class=\"container\">\n<div class=\"subscribe__inner\">\n<div class=\"subscribe__content\">\n<p>Subscribe<\/p>\n<p>The most engaging reads in blockchain. Delivered once a<br \/>\n        week.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"subscribe__img\">\n    <img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Subscribe to Magazine by Cointelegraph Newsletter.\" src=\"https:\/\/cointelegraph.com\/magazine\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/reading-copy.png\" \/><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cointelegraph.com\/magazine\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/reading-copy.png\" alt=\"Subscribe to Magazine by Cointelegraph Newsletter.\" \/>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<h2><strong>So, where\u2019s the happiness after all?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>According to Rao, one can\u2019t look for happiness. It can\u2019t be discovered in a favorite altcoin, and it won\u2019t suddenly appear when Bitcoin finally breaks $100,000. Rao believes that happiness is not something to be sought after. The more one seeks happiness, the more it runs away. Happiness just happens. It\u2019s not an aspirational goal but springs out organically in adopting a certain mindset.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe mindset you\u2019re gonna occupy as a crushed crypto trader is: Okay, I\u2019ve blown a big chunk of my fortune and net worth away. It\u2019s very unfortunate, but that\u2019s the way the universe went. And I can now cry myself to sleep every night and make matters a whole lot worse, or I can shine the flashlight of my awareness on the fact that I\u2019m still healthy. I\u2019m still whole. I\u2019ve learned a very expensive lesson,\u201d Rao says.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-rich is-provider-twitter wp-block-embed-twitter\" \/>\n<p>Focus on what to do next. Even if yesterday\u2019s red candles insistently keep trying to grab one\u2019s attention, Rao suggests recognizing this as mental chatter. Instead, focus only on what to do going forward.<\/p>\n<div class=\"article-suggest\">\n<p>Read also<\/p>\n<div class=\"article-suggest__items\">\n<div class=\"article-suggest__item\">\n                        <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/cointelegraph.com\/magazine\/4-out-of-10-nft-sales-are-fake-learn-to-spot-the-signs-of-wash-trading\/\" class=\"article-suggest__subtitle display4\" rel=\"noopener\"><br \/>\n                            <span>Features<\/span><\/p>\n<p>4 out of 10 NFT sales are fake: Learn to spot the signs of wash trading<\/p>\n<p>                        <\/a>\n                    <\/div>\n<div class=\"article-suggest__item\">\n                        <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/cointelegraph.com\/magazine\/desci-tokens-help-improve-scientific-research\/\" class=\"article-suggest__subtitle display4\" rel=\"noopener\"><br \/>\n                            <span>Features<\/span><\/p>\n<p>DeSci: Can crypto improve scientific research?<\/p>\n<p>                        <\/a>\n                    <\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"author category_page\">\n<div class=\"author__img\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" height=\"300\" width=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/cointelegraph.com\/magazine\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/Mitch-Eiven.jpg\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cointelegraph.com\/magazine\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/Mitch-Eiven.jpg\" alt=\"\" height=\"300\" width=\"300\" \/>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n<div class=\"author__content\">\n<h2 class=\"author__name\">Mitch Eiven<\/h2>\n<p>Mitch is a writer who covers cryptocurrency, politics, the intersection between the two and a handful of other, unrelated topics. He believes that crypto is the future of finance and feels privileged that he has opportunities to report on it.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div><\/div>\n<section class=\"news\">\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n<p><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/cointelegraph.com\/magazine\/crypto-winter-can-take-toll-hodlers-mental-health\/\">Source link <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>With so many struggling to maintain emotional well-being during this crypto winter, self-improvement and mental health experts can help navigate the ups, downs and soul-shattering experiences that a long-term bear market can bring. 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